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I had my 10th baby at age 45. When my husband was called up for the war I delivered at an army hospital. They tested me for everything and I never had soooo many papers to fill out, saying I was informed about all the things that could go wrong.

I am happy with all my children and my last baby is a fine healthy girl. Having this baby made me healthier, because some new little person now depended on me.

After the birth, I lost weight and feel years younger. You'll never know unless you're open to the new experience what life will bring you. Don't let anyone scare you, because you're older and wiser than you were 20 years ago.

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Just found out I'm pregnant at 46 for the first time. I'm going to get a blood test to confirm (although 2 at home tests said I was pregnant), then take it from there. My mom had me when she was 40, nearly 41, and she said I was the easiest to have. I'm praying that all goes that way with me, too.

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Posted By Lori on 2006-07-04
I had my first baby at age 42, then after a series of early miscarriages I renewed my mind in the Word of God. I am now expecting one due in late February, 2007, right before my 45th birthday. Forget what the doctors or anyone else says...GOD says we can have perfectly healthy babies!

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I got pregnant with my darling daughter who is upstairs sleeping on my 5th and last IVF. I was 45 and 1 month when conceived and 45 and 10m when delivered. I used my own eggs and PGD. I was at Cornell i had low FSH-3.7, did acupuncture and was a good responder - unusually so for our age -- got 20-28 eggs each time.


Last transfer 2 were normal after PGD, including one that was questionable but we transferred anyway. I had my first daughter at 43 with IUI at Cornell. Everyone told me I was crazy to keep going, even my husband was on the fence but I knew in my heart I had to try one more time to close the door before we went to adoption.

I believe each person knows in their own heart when to stop trying and pursue different avenues. I was careful in who I discussed IVF with. Hope this gives someone hope!!

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I hope this gives encouragement as may docs seem to throw in the towel with women over 44 using their own eggs. I was 48 and with first IUI became pregnant with a normal baby girl.

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Don't you love the attitude's that people can get about a middle aged pregnant woman when it has nothing to do with them LOL!! I think that medicine makes us worry so much. My mom was 40 when she had me and I am just fine and my husband's mother was 45, and father was 47, when he was born and he is a physician and very bright. We were both very healthy and lucky to have parents that were mature enough to appreciate being parents. Best of luck to everyone!

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I am in my 7th week of a surprise pregnancy at age 45. At 6 weeks I had a t/v ultrasound that showed a healthy heartbeat. My HCG levels were 22,000. My doctor thought this looked good and didn't need to get a follow up reading and I will go back in two weeks.

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I have had 3 children in my 40's, last one at 44. - Daphne

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My girlfriend is 45, and she just told me she is pregnant. We would love to have a child together, if we knew it could be born healthy.

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When I had my baby at 45, the doctors were worried about her nuchal fold being too big and a sign of Downs. They also did a sonogram on her heart in utero. My baby was born normal, and her heart is great.

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NEW YORK, NY (June 26, 2007) -- TV's legal eagle, Nancy Grace, has revealed that she is four months pregnant with twins. But that's not her only headliner: she also snuck off and got married!

"I always said I wanted a family," Grace told Access Hollywood. "I grew up in happy, loving family [and] I wanted it too. But until now I just thought it wasn't meant to be for me. And as part of God's mysterious plan, I'm given this wonderful blessing late in life -- and I could not be happier."

The CNN "Headline News" host married Atlanta-based banker David Linch in April. The couple reportedly met when they attended Mercer College together in the late 1970s.

"I've known David...I feel my whole life. 20 years," said Nancy. "This is just a blessing. He is an investment banker -- completely different field [from mine]. I don't talk about banking, and I don't talk about the law."

But just talking about her late-in-life pregnancy brought tears to Nancy's eyes.

"Many years ago, after the death of my fiancee, I dedicated myself to criminal law," Nancy explained. "And that's been my whole life, and I never dreamed anything this wonderful could happen to me."

And as any expecting mother knows, being pregnant has its ups and downs. But for Nancy, any discomfort she may feel is well worth it.

"I'm sick -- I'm nauseous and vomiting," she remarked, "and the doctors say I should feel good about that. And I'm dying to find out if its a boy [and] a girl -- or two girls -- I've picked out a ton of names, and I'm very blessed."

Nancy told Access that the sexes of the babies will be a surprise to her, and that she can't wait to paint the kids' room and buy little outfits for them.

But what about buying clothes for herself?

"This is very first time I've shopped for maternity clothes in my life. I'm looking for things that don't pull, and that I can wear on the air and be comfortable," said Nancy, adding, "And I don't want to be worried about my buttons shooting off. I have one requirement -- that it's expandable!"

Now that Nancy is starting to show physical signs of her pregnacy, the news is hard to hide. But why did she want to keep it all a secret until now?

"I didn't want to jinx it," she disclosed. "I come from rural Georgia, and we believe in hexes and all that. I did not want to [announce] it until I was further along."

But there was also a more practical reason behind Nancy's decision to finally break the news.

"Its been very hard to keep [the secret]," she admitted. "Only my family has known - I can't hide it anymore. I've made enough excuses on why I'm sick, and [people] are going to find out."

And while she can't wait to be a mother, Nancy has no plans to give up the career that she loves.

"I'm staying with 'Headline News,'" she revealed. "I just don't have the heart to give up my victims' rights work...so I'm going to have two little crime fighters. I've got two on board!"

Source: http://www.accesshollywood.com/news/ah5880.shtml
I am 45 years old, and my baby boy is due on May 27th. That is the same day my youngest birth son graduates from high school! So I hope Abraham comes early so I don't have to miss graduation.

I am so grateful to Dr. Berger and his staff for making this possible for me and my family! Good luck to all you ladies out there! - Vickie

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I'm not the 45 year old from this list, but I was on the last one. My due date is 12-14. I had TR in October and had HSG and one round of Clomid right before BFP.

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Elizabeth Ann Buttle is the mother who holds the record for the longest interval between the birth of two children. She gave birth to Belinda on May 19,1956 and Joseph on November 20, 1997. The babies were born 41 years 185 days apart. The mother was 60 years old when her son Joseph was born.

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I was told at age 35 by doctors in my area that having a reversal was "risky" and I'd be better with IVF. At age 44, in October 2005, Dr. Berger performed my TR and now, at age 45, I am 10 weeks pregnant. Even when I told my OB/gyn I was going to have the TR done, she tried to talk me into IVF. I think she's still shocked that I did it!


I too was in the best shape of my life when I started this journey. I worked out with weights and cardio 3 to 5 days a week for two years before I had the TR. Just follow your heart!!!

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You older mom's just rock....... I gave birth to my twins at 47...... There is no substitute for life experience in pregnancy or parenting a child. Congratulations one and all! - Margaret Anne

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When 45 year old Judy Owen was suddenly paralysed from the neck down, she faced the most traumatic yet ultimately happiest year of her life…

“Oh, maybe you’re pregnant!” Jackie had said, and we laughed about how ridiculous that would be. John and I had always had a que sera sera attitude towards having children. Ever since a health scare in my 20's, I had known that it would be difficult to conceive, as I had a high cervix and a tilted womb. And indeed, it had never happened, though John and I never used any contraception. Later, in my early 40's, I had been diagnosed as pre-menopausal, so I was very much resigned to the fact that I was never going to become a parent. We counted our blessings: numerous children around us to spoil; good jobs, a great house, three cats and each other. The very idea that I could be pregnant seemed so unlikely. However, I sent John to the nearest chemist to buy a pregnancy test, fully expecting it to turn out negative.

In the meantime, I picked up my best friend, Manda, from the station. “Wow, you look great!” she exclaimed. “You’ll never guess what? I had the strangest dream about you last night. You said you were pregnant.” I looked at her and could hardly believe what she’d just said.

On the way back home I explained what had happened and, when we arrived, I did the test, which actually showed positive. I couldn’t believe my eyes and assumed it was faulty. All sorts of jumbled thoughts were going through my mind, but mostly I was thinking, “This is awful!” Part of me still didn’t really believe it, but we joked along the lines of “How could John take advantage of a disabled woman!”

The following day, I tried another pregnancy test, with the same astonishing result. I made an appointment to see my GP, Martin Harris, who confirmed that not only was I pregnant, but very pregnant. “I can’t believe what is happening to your family!” he said.

I was despatched straight away to the local hospital for a scan that confirmed I was about 28 weeks pregnant. I was terrified and thrilled at the same time. I remember the sonographer laughing and saying: “I can’t believe you didn’t realise you were pregnant.” In my emotional state, I wasn’t in the mood for joviality, and replied: “Well, have you ever been paralysed from the neck down?”

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I am 45 years old and 12 weeks pregnant. Scarey!! I was told I could not carry a child due to an endometrial oblation procedure 2 years ago. This is truly a miracle and I am excited, but worried.

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Well, I am 49 years old and 9 weeks pregnant. I have a 29 year old daughter and a eighteen year old son. I am trusting God for my pregnant and delivery. I'm from West Africa and my mother had her last child at age 47, normal delivery without complications. My husband and I got married 1998, eight years ago. I conceived in 1998, but had a miscarriage. I am believing God that this baby will be full term baby, normal and healthy.

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My grandmother was in her late 40's when my father was born 56 years ago, and he was her only child. I think my other grandmother had her last child in her late 40's too. I was always told it was very normal for that to happen. - Stace

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I'm the 45 year old referenced in the 04/21 pregnancy report. My TR was 11/2004 and after months of clomid and ovulation kits... We tried IUI. It was successful. I'm on close monitoring right now and am in my 7th week. My first Ultrasound didn't have a fetal pole in it but they say it just may have been a week early - so I'm having another Monday 05/08. The good news was it implanted in my uterus vs. the tube. I feel great and I pray that's a good sign. My due date is Christmas 2006.

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I've had an 8 year old, a 6 year old and a 4 year old since I've turned 40. We are all enjoying the younger ones development so much... They keep us all laughing! - Kate (48)

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I'm 21 weeks pregnant with my 4th. It was a significant shock for me. My kids are 10, 12 and almost 15. I am 44 and have been married to my husband for 22 years. I thought we were done and have had a hard time dealing with my upcoming loss of freedom.

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I know plenty of people who are still trying (besides those of us on this board). In fact, two people I know indirectly had successful pregnancies at 47! A girl friend of mine, who is 45, says that she will keep trying until she reaches menopause! I think I will do the same.

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I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 41 (had her at 42) and am now pregnant with #2 and will most likely deliver just after turning 44.

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In 1997, at age 40, Haney discovered part of God’s redemptive purpose for her life when she gave birth to a baby girl, Jordan. About five years later, Haney and her husband, Jeff, experienced the miracle of childbirth again with a son, Dustin. Being pregnant at 45 had given Haney a whole new meaning of the expression “labour of love.”

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My mother was 45 when she had me in 1968. If she wasn't too old then, you are definitely not too old now. Sure everyone gave her a hard time, but I am glad she did not listen to them!

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Only one person in my family of 8 know I want to get pregnant. I am 44, newly married and have no children. After trying to conceive for a year, taking Clomid for 4 months and doctors basically saying I have no chance of getting pregnant after 40... I tested positive today, and cried with joy! If you are in your 30's or 40's, I think everyone who wants to have a baby should have others be positive and support their hearts' desire, and wish them the best. My friends have been supportive which has helped me to have hope... Hope is everything!

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Chinese healing: Infertility treatment (we specialize in natural pregnancy, IUI and IVF Preparation):
Clinical Data: Oldest client getting pregnant: 47 Years old.

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So my husband and I and our kids (3, 14, 22) are in a restaurant on Sunday. The waitress comes up and looks at the 3 year old, looks at us and says, "Yours?" (wondering if it was maybe a grandson) We say yes and she says she just had a healthy baby boy 10 weeks ago, and she's 46!!!!


She thought she was in menopause as she hadn't had a period in well over a year. Then one day she was sitting on the couch watching TV, and her stomach MOVED!!! She was 5 months pregnant!!!!

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I am in my 5th attempt at IVF at age 44, with my own eggs. I got pregnant first time and miscarried after 3 months. This attempt I transferred 3 embryos (2 8-cell and 1 7-cell) and am pregnant. Doctor said numbers are very good.


I am remaining optimistic -- I go back on Friday for another blood test. You just never know. Trying with your own can and will work for some people.

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I have a friend who was 45 when she had her second child, 18 years after her 1st child. I have a cousin that was over 40 when she had her 1st child. She and her husband tried for over 20 years to get pregnant.

Do what makes you happy, because you will have to live with that decision.

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My mother had 20 pregnancies, and her last was at age 45. So don't let anyone tell you your age is too old to have a child.

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I recently heard a co-worker say she knows a woman of 47 years old, who is having her first baby. If you can still have a baby, I say go for it!!

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I met a bright, beautiful girl the other day. She was 23 years old and working on her MBA. She was the 16th child of 16 children! Same mother and father! Her dad was 72 years old when she was born and her mom was 56 years old!


Everyone told her mom she should abort that baby. Her mom felt if God wanted her to have it, then she would. She was blessed with a beautiful, intelligent, wonderful daughter!

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I'm 47, and have a beautiful 19 month old daughter. My husband and I are trying for another! When I mention having another baby to my family they give me this look like "whatever for?".


I just don't let it bother me, and neither should you. Best of luck to you...

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I delivered my first at 40 and am trying now to have another as I near 43. My mother delivered me at 44, and I'm the last her 6 (total 8 in the family).

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My Chinese doctor told me as long as you are regular with your periods you can still conceive.

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You are not too old to have a baby. My mom's friend was 47 when she had her little girl, and she didn't have any problems.

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Good luck, keep trying. One of my sister's co-worker got pregnant on her own at age 47, and just had a healthy baby. Relax and pray.

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My mother was born when my grandmother was 44, I was born when my mother was 34 and my father was 40, and at 37 1/2 I am trying for #2. My husband was born when his mom was 36.


Despite our "old" parents, we turned out wonderfully (a doctor and a lawyer no less). Everyone will love the baby irrespective of your age. If you can do it, go for it and I hope all of the nay-sayers eat crow!

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I have at least 5 friends who have had children in their 40's (40-45), with only great results. Your family will love any new family member once they are here, and should be ashamed of themselves when they realize that if you had listened to them, their lives (and yours) wouldn't have been as enriched.

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My Grandmother had her youngest at 46.

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My Great grand mother did not start having children till she was 37, and had 12 before she stopped. But, of course, there was a couple of sets of twins in there. So you are not too old to be having babies.

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I was 42 (3 weeks shy of my 43rd birthday) when I had my first and my husband and I would like to have more children. I was encouraged to read of the 47 year old who has a 19 month old. Our society is so focused on "me" that they don't see the blessing of little ones. You keep on keeping on!!

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I am 45 and have a 3 year old and a 9 month old. Occasionally I do feel "too old", but having these two precious girls in my life more than makes up for those days! Do what your heart tells you -- not what other people tell you!

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My husband's mother was 44 when she had him, and his sister was 42 when she had a healthy boy. Be encouraged!

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I was born when my mom was 45.

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Age doesn't mean you're too old or not. It's all up to the way your body is. I have some friends who have 8 children, and didn't start having them until the woman was in her mid-thirties and the father was almost 40. And, of course, they're not stopping with #8! Go ahead and try. You'll only regret it if you never do.

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My mom was 44 when she had me, and she hasn't had any regrets. I am now 24 and have a beautiful relationship with my parents who are STILL married. They got married later in life after bad relationships and wanted a baby. Maybe waiting helped me and them. It helped financially too.

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I am the youngest of the 16 children, and my mother had me when she was 48 years, so I think there's a possibility you'll have a beautiful one like me. May God bless you.

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Hi, I just got married 11 months ago, turned 47 one month ago and had a miscarriage also a month ago. My doctor stated I was too old and my eggs were too old to conceive but yet I did - to his, his colleagues and supervisor amazement.

I was two months and half weeks pregnant, and yet my doctor did not believe me. He stated, "Oh, you are probably going through menopause." But when he ordered labs on me, it was confirmed. It shocked the hell out of him.

When I had the miscarriage, he told me to keep trying and I proved every one wrong. Listen, only God knows and he decides all. Keep trying because I am. Good Luck to all!

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I'm 26, but my mum of 45 is about to give birth to my baby sister in 3 weeks time! Age doesn't matter its love that counts!

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I am 46 years old, pregnant with my 4th child. This was a shock, but we are so excited. I have 21,18, and 7 year old. I am due in January.

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I’m 37 going on 38. I’ve got 5 kids and want another as my partner wants a boy so badly. You are never too old to have kids, my mother had me at 45.

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My Mum was 45 in 1966 when she gave birth to identical twin girls. (I'm one of them)! She was working as a midwife at the time, and carried to term we were 6 pound each! Dad was, wait for it, 62!
They also had a 10 year old daughter.

By all accounts we were beautiful, healthy babies, complete with golden curls. Our parents had enough energy for us all, and were always there for us. Because their working days were over when we were born, they had plenty of time for us all! Even in the teenage years, they listened to all our woes and supported us.

They saw & enjoyed 10 grandchildren. Dad died 3 years ago at 98, and Mum 18 months later at 82. They kept good health pretty much all their lives. Many of our friends lost their parents before we lost ours. We all adored them.

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Follow your heart! I had my first baby at 41 and will be having my second one a few weeks before I turn 44. We know the risks and are willing to take the chance. Our firstborn is incredible.

We didn't need to use fertility methods... but I had been on prenatal vitamins for a long time before conception. God has blessed us. Having a baby was a dream come true... one I thought I had given up in my 30's.

I didn't have the opportunity to be happily married and to be pregnant when I was younger. Now I am married and extremely happy. You have to decide if it is right for you and your husband...not for everyone else.

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The doctors told me there was only a 2% chance I would get pregnant at 44. I'm now 45 and 7 weeks pregnant, with no fertility help! It's my 2nd marriage, my husband's first and he wanted a child. We prayed for this baby, and believe God has blessed us abundantly with it. Good luck. Do what feels right for you.

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I am 20 years old. My mother was 45 and my father 49 when I was born, and they did a wonderful job and I couldn't have asked for a better situation. My mom says having a baby when you are older helps you focus more on that baby and she says it helps keep you young. All her friends were knitting and she was out paddle-boating on a lake with me and going to school field trips! She has tons of energy.

I say GO FOR IT! I loved it that my parents were older, because they are wiser and love me more, but at the same time, I fear I may lose them because of age and am jealous of siblings who got to have more time with my mom and dad.

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I'm 47, I was told I would never be able to get pregnant, nor should I even try because of my age and being type 2 diabetic. But guess what, my prayers were answered, to the absolute surprise to everyone. But I am loving it, doctor tells me all is well, and I feel as if I have been given the most wonderful gift of my life by the Lord. I feel so blessed.

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I had my beautiful daughter when I was 46. She is healthy, beautiful and the love of my life. This is my second time around, a new husband and new baby brought us all together as a family. Never say never.

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Last year I read a study that said that moms that had any children after age 40 were on average, very long-lived. It made sense to me, because my grandmother had three of her kids over the age of 40 and lived till 97.

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Other factors have to be taken into consideration, such as genetics, family history and lifestyle. Some women, like my grandmother, are able to conceive easily and naturally at 46. Why are we never told these figures?

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I have an older friend who just had a baby. Mom is 48 years old, and just had bypass surgery last year to boot! She had no trouble conceiving and had only smaller adaptations she needed to make during her pregnancy.


She did go through some exams to provide the doctors with details of the baby so they could treat her accordingly throughout the pregnancy, and she did have to have a C-section because of the heart surgery last year. However, she and her husband now have an absolutely beautiful and perfect little baby boy!

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Tell them you are going to chase your dream! I was age 42 with my first. She's a fantastic child! I just turned 45 and am newly pregnant. It's your life, live it your way!

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Its really your choice. I'm 20. I love my mom and dad and feel they prepared me well, they are now 65 and 69. As the child of older parents, my fear is that I will lose them soon as being raised as an only child (despite having 4 older siblings ages 35-43) because my brothers and sisters were out of the house I am a lot closer to my parents and very very very attached to them



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I have two friends who got pregnant naturally, with their own eggs, one at 46 and one at 47.

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100 years ago, it relatively common for people to see a woman in her 50's with a baby in her arms, and every now and then you would see a woman in her mid 60's with her own baby in her arms.

In the last 50 years or so, there has been a frightening drop in fertility. In 2006, 35 year old women are less fertile than women age 45-50, were 100 years ago. Women are designed to have children from the start of menstruation to a year or two before the menopause. And if menopause isn't till 65, then 100 years ago, a woman would still be getting pregnant, age 63, and giving birth age 64. But the massive drop in fertility means that it is becoming increasingly uncommon for women over 35 to get pregnant without assistance. And no one seems to be interested, in investigating this loss of fertility.

And it is not just women who are becoming more, and more infertile. 100 years ago, sperm counts were typically 100 million sperm per sample, but now they are 30 million sperm per sample, and falling.

So 100 years ago, although it would have been unusual for a 62 year old women to give birth, every large community had a woman in her 60's with her own babe in her arms. So what has gone so terribly with women's/men's fertility, that, now, makes us think that Patricia Rashbrook is unusual?

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Dr. Winslow: As long as a woman has good eggs, she can usually be pregnant.

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Many women aged over 45 years can have symptoms of menopause (like hot flashes) whilst still having regular periods. Similarly, a woman may be having only 2-3 periods per year and yet still be ovulating, which means technically she can still become pregnant.

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I have records of quite a few of my maternal ancestors having babies into their late 40's and I seem to recall at least one in the 50's. My genealogical research is packed away for now so I can't verify until I unpack it again, but I remember seeing a number of over 50 pregnancies in other families in the counties I was researching.

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After I switched doctors - the new doctor wanted to mention to me, as I was walking out the door... That another patient who had tried for awhile - gave up all meds, herbs, iui, etc and took a break. She got pregnant a couple months later, after giving everything up, and delivered a healthy 7 pound baby and the topper - SHE WAS 45..... So I try, and remember this story and others, when I get depressed over this issue.

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Dr. KAMARAJ'S ANSWERS: Women can conceive up to the age of 45 years.

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QUESTION: Can I become pregnant during menopause?
ANSWER: Yes, you can become pregnant right up to your last period.

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QUESTION: I am very interested in filling out the quiver some more, and wonder, with your experience, how many other women my age (now am 45) are able to have babies. And just what are the chances? I would think that having had my last two babies in my 40's, my chances would be good.

ANSWER: You’re not such an old lady at 45. As I have told another list subscriber, I grew up with a girl who was born to her mother at the mother’s age of 54, when the mom had not been cycling for a couple years or so. I’ve been reading about this for another woman, also desiring more in the quiver, and have found that the very best thing to try would be Vitex (agnus-castus), taken 1-2 capsules every morning during the whole cycle. The normalizing effect on the hormones tends to increase fertility quite naturally.

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I am also 45 years old (will be 46 in May) and I underwent an unsuccessful IVF in September of 04 - my 5 embryos did not make it to blast.

Now it's 5 months later, and I am suddenly pregnant! (natural conception, 4 1/2 weeks at this point). I am wondering if an unsuccessful IVF increases the odds of a natural pregnancy in the ensuing months.

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If you're worried about the energy level of older moms, how about you come do a workout with me some time? I'll take it easy on you. (49-year-old mom of 3-year-old twins).

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Posted By Christine on 2006-06-20
I just found out I’m 6 weeks pregnant at age 46 1/2 with my 13th!! My youngest two were born when I was 41 (Katie) and 44 (Joshua), perfect and precious in every way. I hope I’m as lucky this time round.


My eldest daughter, Hannah, is due 2 days before me! She told her son Grandma's having a baby too!! Cross your fingers and keep me in your prayers.

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I'm 44, my wife is 46, and we just had twin girls in November. I can't imagine trying to raise twins when I was in my 20's or even 30's. I just don't think I would have the means to manage the process. I feel I'm a much better parent now.

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My maternal grandmother had her last (tenth!!!) kid on her 44th birthday.

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I had one at 40 and another at 42, but my cousin did a family history with one of the farm women ancestors having her 11th child at age 48.

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My sister has told me of a number of women that she knows who have had children, then had multiple miscarriages in their forties, and then a healthy baby at 45 or later. So it is possible.

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My grandmother had a baby at 51

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A friend of mine had a baby at 51!

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My mom had her last baby at 51. My little sister just turned 9. My mom is now thinking about how she will be 70 when my sister graduates high school.

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Miriam Belov - Shares her thought regarding wellness and relaxation at home and work, as well a her joy of giving her first birth at 51 to Madaline

Miriam says: As you might have figured out, I am now in my 50's. After being very concentrated on my calling, I found myself pregnant for the first time at 51. Needless to say, my husband and I were elated. After a blessedly uneventful pregnancy, I gave birth to a daughter.

I sincerely believe that I was able to carry so easily because I used my own relaxation techniques and have a healthy body due to years of exercise, yoga, tai chi and right eating.

Indeed, during the pregnancy I spent a great of time in meditation and relaxation. I feel that the 9 months of gestation are crucial for the developing fetus and affect the rest of her life.

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The short answer is that it was rather later in previous centuries than it is now. The reason is that women both started and finished menstruating later: something to do with the quality of nutrition, I believe. So whereas birth in one's 4'0s would now be considered late, it was common in previous centuries, and the oldest case I have come across is a woman giving birth at 52, although that is definitely unusual.

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I have a friend who had a child at 45!! Second marriage and all that.... The little girl is now 4 years old, and my friend is always exhausted.

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My hubby said to look at the bright side... At least I am not going thru pregnancy at 51 years old (Our friend is, and planned baby at that!)

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A dear friend of mine, Mary, had her first child five months ago, and she's 47. She spent a lot of money on fertility doctors and they told her she couldn't conceive.


Well, one day Mary wasn't feeling well, went to the doctor and they gave her the surprising news that a baby was coming! Her health is not the best. She's had cancer and other health problems.

Mary’s baby, David, Jr. is healthy, happy and very spoiled. Mary and her husband are thrilled and feel blessed – along with being very tired. Good luck to you with this decision.

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You are not too old until you cannot produce eggs anymore. I was pregnant at 51, to my surprise. I became pregnant very easily up until 47, but that is very different with each person.

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I had five children...first child at 19 and last at 46. My early family... I had lots of energy to play on the floor, baseball, hiking, etc., but no wisdom about how to be a parent rather than a friend.

My late family... I had lots of wisdom and did a better job of parenting, but couldn't keep up as well with the physical stuff. Age is not the issue. The issue is why do you want to have a child, and are you prepared to give your all to parenting. There is great joy and great pain involved.

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346 — The number of females in Canada aged 45 to 49 who had given birth (live births) in 2003.

15 — The number of women in Canada aged 45 to 49 who had given birth to their 10th child or more (live birth) in 2003.

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My friend was able to get pregnant, and have her baby at 52 years old. Didn't even get a c-section!

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My dad's vasectomy grew back after 20 years and voila! A baby boy at age 52.

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My husband's high school girlfriend got pregnant at 52, and gave birth to triplets, three little girls. (I know you're thinking fertility drugs, but no, multiples run in her family, and older mothers are more likely to have a multiple birth. I'm thinking that she thought she was past all that, as we women tend to do, but was wrong.)

Anyway, the older parents of my anecdote have plenty of money, and are delighted with the wild, unexpected turn that their life has taken.

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I am a PREGNANT 45 year old with a 14-month-old son. Our second son due in February. I married for the first time at 43. My husband is two years younger than me and this is his first marriage as well.

My OB says he uses me as an example for older women who want to have children. My parents also married in their 40's and my mom had me, her only child, at 43.

My husband and I feel we have a better chance at a successful marriage and at being good parents since we've already had the freedom to do anything we wanted and have no resentment over our new responsibilities. We've also had the opportunity to become more financially stable.

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I am 50 with a six year old and twins who are 3. I waited a long time, but it's well worth it. Sure there are days when I wish I didn’t have to this or that, but then I look at the blessings God gave me, and am very thankful.


My husband is a big help, and that in itself is wonderful of course being 20 years younger helps too. We’ve been married 10 years - Demi Moore has nothing on me.

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I'm 49 with premature grey hair, a four year old active son and 23 year old and 21 year old children in college. Sometimes it's fun to get the senior discount and the free sucker at the bank on the same day!

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I am 49 and have two sons -- 4 and 6 years old. I am a stay at home mom, and absolutely love it! I am very involved with their school.

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I'm a certified labour doula (professional labour assistant, or as some like to call me "professional birth coach."). I don't believe in "too old to have kids." I've assisted mothers aged 16 to 45, and can tell you their labours were no more difficult than those older or younger.


Each family has been unique (I’ve assisted about 20), and each mother completely different. Older parents do have some advantages over younger: more likely to be financially stable, more life experience, more time to gain education on parenting topics, more confidence in their abilities.

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Granulated herbs are equally good the Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) guy told me and he said he had success with a 48 year old who has just given birth (with own egg)

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My friend had one month of Clomid at 44, and was pregnant and had a boy with it and NO side effects at all on 3 times the dose.

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My husband and I had decided to give up TTC, and I was ok with it. I had been taking a lot of different medicines trying to conceive but nothing was working so I stopped taking all of it 2 cycles ago. So this month, I end up pregnant and now I'm freaking out. I wasn't being careful considering I had been trying to get pregnant for well over 2 years, and nothing happened. I had a CT scan and now I'm scared about how that will affect the baby. Not to mention being 45.5 isn't helpful either.

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I've got a friend whose mother delivered at 47 and her mother-in-law at 48 ( we're talking in the early 50's ladies -- no donor eggs! ) I even heard about a woman in our church who was expecting at 50.

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I am an older mom. I am 52 and have a 7 year old girl.

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My RE said genetics do play an albeit small part. My great g'ma had 14 pregnancies, 11 live births, 3 miscarriages (that she knew of) and had kid #11 at 44 or 45...

My cousin (her granddaughter and my mom's 1st cousin) had a baby at 43 (and conceived at around 43).

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There's a great story in the Randine Lewis book about a woman who married at 41, went through NINE (9) Count them! IVFs and finally went to see Dr. Lewis, who prescribed dietary changes, herbs and acupuncture. In 3 months (I think) she had IVF for the 10th time, got pregnant and delivered at 46...

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My sister in Law is 44 in January, and 29 weeks pregnant with her first, after doing 3 cycles of IVF. She saw an RE near Surfer Paradise. She is great with mature age ladies.

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On Thursday I also saw another Chinese herbalist/acupuncturist, and he specializes in fertility. I said that I am scared of more miscarriages. He said, when you have one, you need to wait 3 months. I said, I can't wait, I've just gone closer to 42.


He laughed and said I was young. He had helped a 48 year old conceive and give birth using her own eggs a few months ago, and he has another patient who is 45 and had 9 or more miscarriages. She is now 38 weeks pregnant with her first baby.

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I agree with continuing to try though because my next door neighbour's mother had her youngest sister at 48! Naturally of course back then...


I also have a friend that conceived late 45, delivered 46...

My RE has helped three woman, 45, 46, 47 have babies....

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