Amazon.com lists over 8,000 items under the search term "fertility"
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If it is so rare, so impossible, such a miracle to get pregnant spontaneously - why can I find so many stories?

Offering inspiration, hope, and comfort to those trying to conceive and those finding themselves unexpectedly pregnant over 44 years old...


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Image: Pregnancy Miracle: clinically proven holistic and ancient Chinese system for permanently reversing your infertilityPregnancy Miracle
by Lisa Olsen

-- A 279-page, instantly downloadable e-book presenting a 5-step, sure-fire, 100% guaranteed, clinically proven holistic and ancient Chinese system for permanently reversing your infertility and your partner's infertility disorders and getting pregnant quickly, naturally and safely within 2-4 months without drugs, dangerous surgeries, side effects, or expensive infertility treatments.

It's probably the most powerful infertility reversal system ever developed, and currently the best-selling e-book of its kind on the entire Web!

Here's what the author Lisa Olson had to say about her incredible program:
After 14 years of trial, error, and experimentation, I finally discovered the answer to infertility and developed a fool-proof system to getting pregnant the natural way - no drugs, or surgery necessary.


It took a lot of research to get to where I am today, to know exactly what works and what doesn't. Yes, after desperate trial and error, countless of useless treatments, disappointments, and agony, a simple holistic system opened the door to my new and much brighter life of motherhood.

I was also excited to see that my other infertility related symptoms had diminished. After years of waiting, I was finally free from Infertility! I have become a proud mother of two.

And now I'm finally revealing my secrets in this new 'encyclopedia' of pregnancy called, Pregnancy Miracle.

I will be your own personal coach, take you by the hand, and lead you through the lousy advice, hype and gimmicks... and directly to the sort of inner balance perfection that will end your battle with infertility forever and help you become a proud mother of your healthy children.

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Pregnancy Miracle
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Personally I find the statistics we get about Down's Syndrome somewhat confusing.

So I translated them into percentages.

I think it is all too easy to think of 1-80 as one in 80%, but it is not.

1-80 translates to 1.25 % for DS, or 98.75% chance of NOT having Down Syndrome...

Maternal age as a risk factor for occurrence of Down's Syndrome

Age...Stats...Percentage DS...Percentage... not having Down's Syndrome
36....... 1/200.......0.5% DS.............or 99.5% NOT
37........1/150.......0.666667% DS.....or 99.333333% NOT
38........1/120.......0.833333% DS....or 99.166667% NOT
39........1/100.......1% DS...................or 99% NOT

40........1/75 ........1.33333% DS........or 98.66667% NOT
41........1/60........1.66667% DS........or 98.33333% NOT
42........1/45........2.22222% DS.......or 97.77778% NOT
43.........1/35 .......2.85714% DS......or 97.14286% NOT
44.........1/30........3.33333% DS.....or 96.66667% NOT

45+.......1/20........5% DS ...............or 95% NOT

Source: Genetics Of Down Syndrome
What I get from this is the chances of having a baby with Down's Syndrome does not go up as drastically as I had originally thought.

The one in whatever numbers makes things look very bad for us.

When I translated them however to percentages, they look a lot better.

We have a better chance of having a baby without Down's Syndrome.

If I had an illness and was told I had a 95% chance of getting better, I would not plan my funeral.

Would you?

I think all too many doctors are giving misleading statistics for a couple of reasons.

The first being OB/GYN's are the highest sued doctors in the US.

So they pay the highest premiums.

They do not want to take any chances of anyone saying they were not warned about Down's Syndrome so they push for Amnios.

Second, they get paid a lot to do Amnios.

Unlike NT's and Level Two sonograms, the OB/GYN who recommends them usually does them as well.

I got a bill for my amnio because the hospital miss filed it as elective surgery.

I cleared it up and did not have to pay.

The total was about 10,000 US dollars. Six thousand of which was going to my OB/GYN alone. So money is a factor as well.

Who do you think ends up paying that high insurance rate?

NOTE: This article was written by my good friend Jillian from FertilityFriend.com


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Gifts: Mothers Reflect on How Children with Down Syndrome Enrich Their Lives
by Kathryn Lynard Soper (Author), Martha Sears (Foreword)

-- Having a baby with Down syndrome is not something most parents would willingly choose.

Yet many who travel this path discover rich, unexpected rewards along the way.

In this candid and poignant collection of personal stories, sixty-three mothers describe the gifts of respect, strength, delight, perspective, and love, which their child with Down syndrome has brought into their lives.

The contributors to this collection have diverse personalities and perspectives and draw from a wide spectrum of ethnicity, worldviews, and religious beliefs.

Some are parenting within a traditional family structure; some are not.

Some never considered terminating their pregnancy; some struggled with the decision.

Some were calm at the time of diagnosis; some were traumatized.

Some write about their pregnancy and the months after giving birth; some reflect on years of experience with their child.

Their diverse experiences point to a common truth: The life of a child with Down syndrome is something to celebrate.

These women have something to say--not just to other mothers but to all of us.

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Click to order/for more info: Gifts: Mothers Reflect on How Children with Down Syndrome Enrich Their Lives



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My goal is to simply share stories I find online, for inspiration - to those trying - and comfort to those who find themselves unexpectedly pregnant!

... Sort of a "chicken soup for the TTCing over 44 soul".

... Your stories and feedback are welcome!


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In 2015, there were 224,938 live births in the United States to women ages 40 through 54.

754 of those live births to women 50-54 years old.

In 2014, there were only 783 live births to women over 43, using donor eggs...

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